I
was born in Nieu Bethesda. I went to school till Standard
Three, and by then I was eighteen, as I started school late,
so I couldn't go further. I married when I was twenty-one,
and we had three children together. My married life is good
- while I looked after my children I make slippers to earn
money. My two eldest, Grace and Desmond, passed their Matric,
and my baby daughter is now in Standard Eight. Desmond is
looking for work. He can't go to college because there is
not enough money for that. Grace has a child, and is teaching
at the Creche. My husband worked most of life at the local
Trading store, but six years ago he damaged his back with
too much heavy lifting, and since then he has been on a
disability pension.
The
best thing in my life is that my children learn. When I
was a child things were not so easy. We often went to school
barefoot, even when it was very cold and there was frost
or snow on the ground. My mother brought us up on her own.
I didn't meet my father till I had three children of my
own.
I
think Nieu Bethesda is a place for peace - not so much violence.
I can see many changes since apartheid finished. The clinic
used to have two sides, one for whites and one for us. Now
we can go in the same clinic, the same toilet. Every day
I go to church, and pray to God to make my life better.
If my son gets a job, he will be able to help us a bit,
as my daughter does with her work at the Creche, and with
the help of God, my work at the Arts Centre will also help
us.